Do you often find yourself in the mood for loving, only to be shut down by your partner? 

The desire for sex. It’s one of the most fascinating and intriguing parts of the human psyche. And, at times, it can be one of the most challenging aspects of a relationship.

When they want it, you don’t want it. When you want it, they don’t want it. Traditionally, in a heterosexual relationship, it is most commonly the man who has a stronger desire for sex. But, this certainly isn’t always the case.

And, one thing that everyone can relate to, is the feeling of rejection and insecurity upon being turned down.

On the Will and Woody show, the boys opened the conversation, and took opposing sides to the argument. They also took some calls from listeners who had their own scenarios to share, to try and get to the bottom of the issue. Listen to the podcast below to find out what they discovered. And read on further for some of the most common excuses for not being in the mood.


excuses for not being in the mood

I’m still mad at you

I’m not feeling well

The kids might hear

I’m feeling bloated

I’m not feeling sexy right now


I’m out of condoms

I have my period

I need to be up early

The game hasn’t finished yet

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