You’re Ignoring Your Gut – Don’t Deny It. 

That little voice in your head is saying “get out! get out!” but no. You’re too scared and too lazy to seek out happiness and free yourself from your loveless relationship. The reason why is because a loveless relationship is a silent killer, there are no clear indications that it’s over, it’s simply that the spark has fizzled out. So without the big deal breakers, like someone cheating or moving overseas, you can’t justify actually walking away. But you should listen to your gut and follow your instincts. 

You’re Preoccupied With Other People’s Business 

Most females are caring beings and put the needs of others ahead of their own. Therefore for you to focus on your own happiness you need to stop distracting yourself with other people’s problems. If you find yourself always getting caught in fights between your mother and your sister or your girlfriends, it’s time to take a step back and start focussing on the bigger issues. 

The Distance Between You Keeps Growing

A big indicator that the relationship has fallen apart is that you’ve fallen into a routine, sex is no longer on the cards and your day to day existence is boring and repetitive. Everyone goes through rough times, but if it seems like it has been going on for more than a year… it’s time to get some professional help or move on. 

You Fantasize About A Life Without Them

Detaching psychologically by fantasizing about having affairs with other people or dreaming of plans in the future than don’t include your current partner can both be signs that you have fallen out love. 

You’re Not Listening and You’re Not Being Heard

When you’re chatting to your spouse are you actually listening to what they’re saying? Are you interested in their day? In their issues and emotions? Or are you giving them the same old answers you always would. Similarly are you finding that they aren’t listening to you? If you’re not listening and neither are they than you have both switched off emotionally. If you started actually listening to what they are saying and engaged, you could get to the bottom of the issue and resolve it. 

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